Real confidence, is a remarkable depth, present in anyone. And in the right circumstances, is nurtured, encouraged, and strengthened.
Confidence is a light-bearing power which emanates from within you. One which is attached to a deep sense of knowing, and is consistently enabled by a positive source, or charge.
To always remain elevated in your thoughts, moods, and emotions, its vital to be in the realm of what gives you that power source, constantly.
Including doing what you most enjoy. And only being surrounded and supported by the people who care enough for you, to entirely make that happen
Jealous, insecure people, will never be the right fit for your growth. They will only ever serve to continuously bring you down, in any way possible. Without having any real idea or understanding of who you really are.
Its unfortunate, but thats the reality. So, its best to avoid these types, at all cost. The less energy you give them, the better off you'll be, moving forward.
Its essential to grow from an uplifting space, exclusively, as you only continue to strengthen, to newer heights. While remaining solidly grounded, in what you know.
Nothing else ever comes remotely close, when you're focused on something you're passionate about.
Ever wondered how differently you felt around a positive change? How more energized you became, once you made that mental shift in your thinking?
If something is getting you down, or stressing you out, STOP!
Remove yourself from the situation, or find a meaningful distraction and realign your thoughts to a much higher energy source.
Reverse the cycle of negative energy and deflect it back. You can deflect something by applying the opposite in huge doses, or a little at a time, whichever is more manageable for you.
There are several techniques around to aid in re-grouping your mental energy. Its necessary to shift your thoughts, and re-align properly, and quickly. Otherwise you'll find yourself feeling depleted and exhausted.
For example, if something has caused you pain, in some way, use it, be inspired by it. And change its direction, to help strengthen you, instead.
Look for the underlying message that was in that experience, to not only help with your own understanding, but to help someone else's, as well.
Its not only healing, but, its perhaps a real indicator of whats truly missing out there, in the first place. And maybe, you just may have the answer.
Recently, I had another major setback, one of life's many, on the long road of 'what it means to be human, in every way possible'. The setback, I view as a test to be thrown into, in order to gauge the resilience factor. Believe me, with all the personal challenges I've been through, over the years, you'll be surprised how I manage to keep myself going... time after time.
So, how did I manage to get over this hurdle, eventually, this time round??.....
By simply remembering what it is, that gives the greatest strength. My creative works. This is something no-one else has any control over, and is impartial. It offers levels of complete freedom, which nothing in this world can ever quite give me. It makes me happy, and satisfies my spiritual core. So its something which I value very highly.
Its also interesting just 'who' exactly shows up in your life to help you through those 'crushing' times. In my case, it was just 1 person, and was a stranger to me. But, he more than made up for 100 others. And for that, he has my respect.
We are the clothes we wear.
Everything internal, is reflected external. So, if one is feeling like 'crap', then, you'll hardly see the conscious effort to keep up with appearances, especially in detail.
We kind of tend to let ourselves 'go' a bit. With little or no concern for what any other thinks. We become overly consumed with self-defeating thoughts and doubts, to really give a toss how it appears to others.
But, thankfully, that phase passes. In time, it does pass.
Even, making little efforts, daily, with simple steps, go a long way toward getting back to feeling better, within yourself.
Personally, I focus on creating.... I wanted a more practical solution for many issues which are affecting so many others out there too. And this is what I came up with.
" ** Boundless Creative**
My other new Creative Project. Click through the link, above, to find out what its all about. I hope you'll be surprised !!
Its taken some time to create the above site, and its been keeping me busy.....but essentially, it is a new business, for the sole purpose of continuing to help others.
And thats how to turn negatives mindsets into positive ones. By taking the adversity, or challenges and obstacles, then deciding to do something about it. Not just thinking it, or saying it, but actually actioning a stand!!
What are your thoughts? Do you agree, or disagree?
And again, if you enjoyed reading this, and other writings I've put 'out there', then do leave a comment, to let others know "how, perhaps, you deal with challenges?"', or, feel free to follow, or, share this with someone you know, who may find inspiration from it.
My writings have received almost 2,ooo reads, so a huge thanks to those of you who continue to come by. It means alot. And its always my hope that you find some inspiration from these.
Until next time, go out and make someone Happy with your gorgeous self !!
You know you're the light, to make that happen!
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